International Fetish Day
Did you know? International Fetish Day was launched in 2008 by British BDSM enthusiasts. They did this in order to support the BDSM community on the island and thus create more understanding for different preferences. This is why International Fetish Day has been held on the third Friday in January since 2009. This year we are celebrating this exciting day of action on 19 January. Feel welcome and join us in the world of fetishes.
"My fetish is..." - completely normal or perverted?
An exciting and sensual topic that is often taboo and misunderstood. But is it really so unusual to have special sexual preferences? In this blog, I will take you into the world of fetishes, take a closer look at them and clarify the question of whether they are really as "abnormal" as is often assumed. Let's dive in and discover together what it means to have a fetish.
Normal or a taboo?
I can reassure you that it's perfectly normal to have different sexual preferences and therefore fetishes. Fetishes can even be an extra hot kick for your relationship and intensify your love life. At this point, it is always important that all actions are consensual for everyone involved.
Explore your fantasies, dare to try something new and enjoy what brings you pleasure.
What is a fetish anyway?
A fetish is simply a sexual preference in which the person finds certain body parts, materials, objects or actions particularly arousing. There is a wide variety of fetishes. The person with a foot fetish, for example, finds feet super hot and the other person loves being humiliated as a slave. As the saying goes? Everyone as they like it! The various facets of fetishes also include BDSM, role play or the idolisation of certain body parts, for example. Do you already know your fetish?
What fetishes are there? Let's take a look at a few examples:
The foot fetish
You've probably heard of the foot fetish. Many people find feet, toes or shoes very hot. So quickly make your toenails pretty and the game can begin.
BDSM
An abbreviation for Bondage & Discipline, Dominance & Submission, Sadism & Masochism. This encompasses a variety of hot games and role play involving power imbalances and various forms of physical stimulation. A blindfold, for example, is an erotic accessory that allows you to relinquish some control and feel your partner even more intensely. hand and ankle cuffs are also popular, or do you need a little spanking on your bum? Then you'll find just the right thing for you here.
The golden shower
I have to disappoint you, this is not the tingling fun fizz from the discounter, but for some people it is almost the same pleasure to be peed on or to pee on someone. So golden showers are nothing more than urine, but they are very often incorporated into sexual fantasies. You can find products for this fetish here, for example.
Leather and latex fetish
An attraction to items of clothing made from leather or latex materials. Many people love being touched with certain materials or fabrics. Classic examples of this would be lacquer, nylon, leather or latex. Maybe there's something for you too.
Electrosex
This is not sex to hip beats, but you are not that far off with this idea. In this case, the beats are the stimulating electric shocks of electrotoys that really get your body quivering. Got curious? Then take a look here.
Voyeurism and exhibitionism
Here, the attraction of watching other people having sex or showing your own body in sexual situations takes centre stage. Who doesn't get hot at the sight of lustful looks?
Role play
Immersing yourself in certain characters or scenarios during sexual play makes role-playing games particularly exciting. Who have you always wanted to be eaten by?
Where can I find people with the same fetish?
There are various ways to meet people with the same fetish:
- Online communities: there are numerous online forums, social networks and websites where people with similar sexual preferences can come together. Platforms such as Reddit or special forums offer the opportunity to meet like-minded people and exchange hot details.
- Events and meetings: In some cities, events such as workshops, meetings or regulars' tables are regularly organised for people with certain fetishes. These can take place in clubs, bars or other public places and offer the opportunity to meet like-minded people in person. Google is sure to come up with a "captivating" event near you.
- Specialised dating apps: There are also dating apps and websites that focus on specific sexual preferences and fetishes. These platforms allow users to find potential partners with similar interests. Well, doesn't that sound tempting?
It is important to emphasise that consensuality, respect and safety should always be taken into account when looking for like-minded people in the fetish community. You should inform yourself in advance about the rules and standards of the respective community and then you can look forward to new and sensual experiences.
To summarise
In conclusion, it is absolutely normal to have a fetish. Accept your hot desires and needs, because only then will your fetish become the famous cherry on top of your very private, erotic cake. Explore your fantasies, try out new things and find your own personal highlight in the big world of fetishes.
Happy fetish!