When you hear flower sex, do you think of boring and monotonous sex? That doesn't have to be the case. I'll explain what flower sex is and its benefits.
Hand on heart, the term flower sex just sounds like five minutes of the missionary position while a light chatter is playing on the radio. So we all agree that flower sex could be synonymous with boring boredom in bed? Let's take a closer look...
What is flower sex?
Flower sex stands for tender sex. It doesn't necessarily have to be sexual intercourse, but petting and long foreplay are welcome. The focus here is on intimacy, closeness, emotion and romance. In English, this is also known as vanilla sex.
It is a special form of slow sex in which you discover each other's bodies and preferences. Instead of a quickie, you are very intense and attentive with each other. You stimulate different erogenous zones with tender kisses, little finger games and light touches. Intense eye contact is expressly desired - after all, you want to watch your lust grow, don't you? Everything will be a little slower, but also much more conscious and intense.
We recommend the following sex positions for flower sex:
Missionary position
A classic among sex positions. The woman lies on her back and spreads her legs. They can either stand sideways on the floor/bed or be wrapped around the partner's pelvis. The man lies between her legs and can therefore penetrate her in a targeted manner.
Riding position
In the normal riding position, for example, you lie on your back. This is how you will later penetrate the other person. The other person sits above you with their legs spread and lets you penetrate them. You can look each other in the eye, kiss and touch each other tenderly, making sex particularly intimate.
Spooning
The spooning position is perfect for cozy cuddly sex or cozy good morning sex. It is one of the most intimate positions possible during sex. In the spoon position, you both lie on your side behind each other. The person in the back is facing you as the person in front and can therefore penetrate you.
Lotus position
The lotus position comes from the Kamasutra, but don't panic, you don't have to be particularly flexible for this. During lotus sex, the man sits on the floor and crosses his legs to form a cross-legged position. The woman can then sit on his lap with pleasure. A backrest is very beneficial for the person sitting on the bottom.
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Flower sex should be characterized above all by love, tenderness and respect. It's about pampering each other, being close and strengthening the intimacy between you and your partner.
4 advantages of flower sex
Here are four reasons why flower sex is a hot experience:
- Intense sex through slower movements: Flower sex is not about fast and furious movements, but rather about gentle and tender touches. The slow and intense movements allow both partners to build a deeper connection with each other and fully enjoy the moment.
- Slowing down and relaxing from everyday stress: In a hectic world where we are often under pressure and feel stressed, flower sex can offer a welcome break. It allows us to leave everyday life behind and focus entirely on our partner and our own needs.
- No pressure - there's no need for an orgasm: With flower sex, the focus is not on orgasm, but rather on experiencing closeness and tenderness together. There is no pressure to perform or meet expectations - instead, you can both simply enjoy what the moment brings.
- You are very close to your partner: Flower sex can create a deep emotional connection between partners. Loving gestures, tender touches and intimate moments can bring you closer together and strengthen your relationship.
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Summary
All in all, flower sex offers many positive aspects that are often overlooked. It's important that we don't underestimate this form of sex because flower sex is incredibly intense. Ultimately, sex is not just about physical satisfaction, but also about love, closeness and trust - and flower sex can definitely offer all of this.
