Welcome to our "SMASH ME - ABC", where we explore the most exciting and sometimes weirdest aspects of sexuality. Today it's about a topic that not only creates excitement, but also knots in your head: bondage. So grab your rope and your curiosity, because it's going to be captivating!
What is bondage?
Bondage is a practice within BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism, and Masochism). In short: it's about tying someone up or being tied up. And no, we're not talking about the moment when you try to untangle your shoelaces and find them in an impossible knot.
The history of bondage
The art of bondage has a long history. Even the ancient Japanese knew that a well-tied knot could do more than just hold a shoe together. Shibari, the Japanese art of erotic bondage, not only looks aesthetically pleasing, it also feels that way - at least for those who are into it.
Why bondage?
- Trust and communication: Nothing says "I trust you" more than "Here are my hands, do what you want with them".
- Increased arousal: Physical restraint can heighten the senses and intensify sexual arousal. Plus point: You can finally say "I'm tied up" and really mean it.
- Creativity and aesthetics: Who would have thought that tying knots could be so sexy? It's like macramé for adults!
...or can it glow a little in the dark?
Believe me, the hogtie combination from SMASH ME will send your senses on a seductive journey that you won't soon forget.
Safety first: Tying up without an emergency call - how it works!
Before you embark on your bondage adventure, here are a few tips:
- Consensual: Both partners must agree. No "surprise bondage" please!
- Safety words: An agreed safety word helps to end the game immediately. "Banana" could be a good candidate, for example.
- Scissors to hand: Emergency scissors should always be within reach. Because nothing ruins the mood faster than a desperate call to the fire department.
First steps in bondage - How to become a master of the art of lacing
- Find out more: Books, online courses and workshops offer valuable information for beginners. Or simply ask your neighbor - who knows?
- Choose materials: Soft ropes or special bondage straps are ideal for beginners. Garden hoses less so.
- Practise: Start with simple knots and build up slowly. Even a master didn't fall from the sky overnight.
Conclusion
Bondage can be an exciting addition to your love life - provided you're not afraid of knots! It offers the opportunity to discover new facets of your sexuality and deepen your relationship with your partner.
Stay curious and discover new things! Visit our blog regularly for more exciting topics about sexuality and relationships.